{"id":2073,"date":"2019-12-11T06:50:58","date_gmt":"2019-12-11T06:50:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/?p=2073"},"modified":"2025-04-02T14:57:35","modified_gmt":"2025-04-02T14:57:35","slug":"anal-fisting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/anal-fisting\/","title":{"rendered":"A Sex Educator&#8217;s Guide to Anal Fisting"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>What is anal fisting? Is it safe? How do I prepare for fisting? Sex educator Gigi Engle answers all your burning questions in this guide on how to anal fist.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>With so much misinformation&nbsp;out there when it comes to sex, it&#8217;s crucial to turn to good sources to get your content before exploring new sexual territory. One of the most important sexual act that needs full, correct, explaining is anal fisting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Luckily we here at <strong><a title=\"b-Vibe\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">b-Vibe<\/a><\/strong> have you covered. Here is everything you need to know about anal fisting, how to anal fist safely, and the mishaps you can avoid with proper preparation and practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CyODxGfuago\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:540px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\"><div style=\"padding:16px;\"> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CyODxGfuago\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" background:#FFFFFF; line-height:0; padding:0 0; text-align:center; text-decoration:none; width:100%;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <div style=\" display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;\"> <div style=\"background-color: #F4F4F4; 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border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg)\"><\/div><\/div><div style=\"margin-left: auto;\"> <div style=\" width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);\"><\/div> <div style=\" width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);\"><\/div><\/div><\/div> <div style=\"display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;\"> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;\"><\/div> <div style=\" background-color: #F4F4F4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;\"><\/div><\/div><\/a><p style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CyODxGfuago\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by b-Vibe (@bvibe.social)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n<script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">What is Anal Fisting?<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Anal fisting is when one partner inserts their entire hand into the anus of the other. Despite the name, the &#8220;fister&#8221; does not make a fist with their hands before inserting it into the anal opening. Making a fist would be dangerous (and probably painful).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, when one is engaging in anal fisting, the fingers are fully extended, overlapping over each other to create a sort of mock dildo with the hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Anal Fisting for Beginners<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The first question we often get &#8220;Is anal fisting safe?&#8221; Yes, however, it&#8217;s a more advanced form of anal play and should not be tried by those new to butt stuff. Anal fisting requires communication, anatomical understanding, and a lot of experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re a newbie, we recommend that\u00a0you start off with an\u00a0<strong><a title=\"anal massage\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/anal-massage\/\" target=\"_blank\">anal massage<\/a><\/strong>, and then progress to\u00a0<strong><a title=\"anal fingering\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/anal-fingering\/\" target=\"_blank\">anal fingering<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0and <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/all-anal-toys\/butt-plugs\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/all-anal-toys\/butt-plugs\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">butt plugs<\/a><\/strong> to get your anus ready for larger objects. Do not attempt to try anal fisting until you&#8217;re ready emotionally and equipped with enough knowledge and experience to do it correctly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">What&#8217;s the Difference Between Anal Fisting and Vaginal Fisting?<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The most obvious difference between vaginal and anal fisting is that one is in the anus, and the other is in the vagina. Vaginal fisting is largely considered to be easier than anal fisting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The vagina naturally expands when it and its <strong><a title=\"vulva anatomy\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lewandmassager.com\/pleasure-guide\/vulva-anatomy-101\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">vulva<\/a><\/strong> owner are fully aroused. Think about it: A vagina is able to expand to accommodate an infant&#8217;s head during childbirth so a hand seems very doable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><strong>RELATED: <\/strong>A Sex Educator&#8217;s Guide on <strong><a title=\"how to have a vaginal orgasm\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lewandmassager.com\/pleasure-guide\/vaginal-orgasms\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">How to Have a Vaginal Orgasm<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While vaginal fisting may seem more manageable, this too is not for beginners. Without proper practice and knowledge, you could cause pain or tears. Fisting of any kind is an advanced form of sexual play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">How to Prepare for Anal Fisting<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Anal fisting&nbsp;is super hot, but it is no simple matter.&nbsp;Learn how to prepare for anal fisting with these 3 golden rules:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. Play Safely and Hygienically<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re looking to anally fist, you need to be sure you&#8217;re doing so with the utmost safety. Get prepared so that you&#8217;re ready to go. First, wash your hands and arms with anti-bacterial soap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remove any rings from your fingers and make sure that your nails are trimmed. Yes, having long shellac nails is cute, but they are NOT good for fisting. Even if you&#8217;re wearing gloves, the smallest nail can damage the sensitive lining of the anal canal and rectum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-safety.jpg\" alt=\"Clean and trim your nails before attempting anal fisting\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Be sure that your arms are completely bare during this play to minimize the risk of getting fecal matter on your arms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While the chances of STI transmission are about the same with regular fingering, a whole hand is much larger than a finger so there&#8217;s an increased risk of tearing. Tears in the delicate anal tissues can mean a higher risk of contracting an STI. If you&#8217;re worried about this (or, you know, getting poop on your hand), you can totally wear latex gloves while engaging in this play. It can be kind of hot, actually. It&#8217;s a good way to get a whole doctor\/ patient roleplay in on the fisting play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For the receiver, you want to be sure that you&#8217;ve had a bowel movement within the last few hours before fisting. It isn&#8217;t essential to use an enema bulb for a &#8216;deeper clean,&#8217; but if it makes you feel better (and sexier), go for it! For more on&nbsp;proper hygiene, check out our complete guide on&nbsp;<strong><a title=\"how to prepare for anal\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-hygiene\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to prepare for anal<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. Lube Is a MUST for fisting<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Lube is a must in all sexual play, but it&#8217;s so, so, SO important when doing anal fisting. Your hand is a larger object. The anus doesn&#8217;t naturally stretch the way a vagina does. Be sure that you are LUBING UP big time. This is not a joke. If you don&#8217;t use lube, you could end up in the hospital with tears or&nbsp;<strong><a title=\"anal fissures\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/anal-fissures\/\" target=\"_blank\">anal fissures<\/a><\/strong>. We know this isn&#8217;t the sexiest thing ever, but you need to know the facts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-lube.jpg\" alt=\"Lube is essential for anal fisting and during anal sex\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>For anal fisting, the best lube is silicone-based lube. Why? Because they&#8217;re latex-compatible and super slippery. You won&#8217;t need to reapply as much as you would with a water-based lubricant. Be sure to choose a silicone lube that&#8217;s as natural as possible. We are obsessed with the&nbsp;<strong><a title=\"System JO Silicone-Based Anal Lube\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/sensual-care\/jo-premium-anal-silicone-based-lube.html\" target=\"_blank\">System JO Silicone-Based Anal Lube<\/a><\/strong>. It&#8217;s a game-changer for anal fisting. We&#8217;re also a big fan of <strong><a title=\"The Butters Palm Grease Ultra-Thick Lube\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/the-butters-palm-grease-ultra-thick-lube.html\" target=\"_blank\">The Butters Palm Grease Ultra-Thick Lube<\/a><\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t forget to put down a towel, disposable absorbent pad, or a <strong><a title=\"waterproof sex sheet\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/lux-fetish-vinyl-bed-sheet.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">sex bed sheet<\/a><\/strong> to catch any excess lube.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>ANSWERED:&nbsp;<a title=\"can you use coconut oil as lube\" href=\"https:\/\/www.lewandmassager.com\/pleasure-guide\/coconut-oil-as-lube\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Can you use coconut oil as lube<\/a>?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For other kinds of anal play, we recommend reading this guide on the&nbsp;<strong><a title=\"best anal lube\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/best-anal-lube\/\" target=\"_blank\">best anal lube<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;by b-Vibe Founder and certified sex educator, Alicia Sinclair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. Communicate,&nbsp;Relax, and Take It Slow<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Look, you cannot have good, pleasurable anal play (or sex play of any kind) without a ton of communication. When you engage in anal fisting, be sure you&#8217;re fully communicating with your partner. It should NOT hurt. If you&#8217;re feeling pain, stop what you&#8217;re doing and reassess. Maybe anal fisting isn&#8217;t working for you today. That&#8217;s OK. Do something else. Try a butt plug. Maybe you just need a break. That&#8217;s OK. Take a break. Communication is lubrication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-communication.jpg\" alt=\"Communication is just as important as lube when it comes to anal fisting and anal sex\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>You MUST be relaxed to take something into the anus. Breathe deeply into your body and relax your anus. If your butthole is tightened up, putting something up it will be very painful. Breathe, breathe, breathe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do not rush anal fisting. Slow it down. You might be super excited and want to shove a hand or have your partner shove their hand up your butt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do NOT do this. Take it super slow, communicate the whole time, and breathe. Remember that if anything doesn&#8217;t feel right or feels painful, or you decide that you don&#8217;t want to do anal fisting anymore, that&#8217;s fine. You have the right to revoke consent at any time, whether you&#8217;re giving or receiving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Best Positions for Anal Fisting<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Doggy:<\/strong>&nbsp;Doggy is popular for anal because it offers clear visuals, and makes the anus easy to access, and the same can be said for fisting. You can play with angles by propping your body up with your arms, resting on your elbows, dropping all the way down to your chest, or spreading your legs wider so your bum drops lower.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>On your back:<\/strong>&nbsp;For the easiest access, this would be done in a sling. But these sexy contraptions can take up a lot of space and aren\u2019t accessible to many, so you may want to invest in some sex furniture or use a few pillows to prop that booty up. Or, you can lay so your ass rests on the edge of the bed, giving the fister more maneuverability. This anal fisting position may not be the easiest for accepting a fist, but it offers a great deal of depth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"939\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/\/2019\/12\/best-position-for-anal-fisting-1024x939.jpg\" alt=\"Best Position for Anal Fisting\" class=\"wp-image-4044\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/best-position-for-anal-fisting-1024x939.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/best-position-for-anal-fisting-300x275.jpg 300w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/best-position-for-anal-fisting-768x704.jpg 768w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/best-position-for-anal-fisting.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Perched:<\/strong>&nbsp;This anal fisting position can be difficult to achieve, but may make it easier to accept a fist because it\u2019s easier to bear down and push out as the fist is entering. The person being fisted will be crouched all the way down, with their knees bent, their back vertical, and their anus easy to access. Try crouching on the edge of a bed, couch, or something that elevates the person being fisted since the fister will be entering with upward motions. This one will be hard on the legs and knees, so the person should use their arms to put less strain on their knees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Best Anal Fisting Techniques<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>All anal fisting techniques&nbsp;should be followed carefully but there&#8217;s really no such thing as the best or top fisting technique \u2014&nbsp;choose what works best for you. If you&#8217;re an anal lover, you likely know which position works best for you as a receiver.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The receiver should either lie on their back or side. If they&#8217;re on their back, draw up the knees, and spread close to the chest. If they&#8217;re on their side, you might want to place a pillow under your side for extra lift.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re playing with a partner, be sure that they are entering your anus slowly. Start with toys \u2014 such as an&nbsp;<strong><a title=\"anal dilator\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/anal-dilator\/\" target=\"_blank\">anal dilator<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;or an&nbsp;<a title=\"anal training kit\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-training-kit.html\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>anal training kit<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;\u2014 to get the sphincter muscles stretched and ready to take large objects. Warm-up is super important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/glass-anal-dilators-set.html\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"990\" height=\"990\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-dilator-sex-toys.jpeg\" alt=\"Anal Fisting Dilator\" class=\"wp-image-3868\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-dilator-sex-toys.jpeg 990w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-dilator-sex-toys-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-dilator-sex-toys-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-dilator-sex-toys-768x768.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><figcaption><strong>Pictured: b-Vibe&#8217;s Borosilicate <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/glass-anal-dilators-set.html\">Glass Anal Dilators<\/a> are ideal for training your way up to anal fist<\/strong>.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Once your anus feels ready, have them slowly enter your anus with their hand. Once you get past the knuckles, there&#8217;s no need to &#8220;push&#8221; any further. The second anal ring will naturally draw the rest of the hand inside.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Once you&#8217;re inside, you can try a bunch of different things! The giver can make their hand into a fist, which creates an intense feeling of fullness. You can also try curling your fingers toward the belly button to massage the prostate (if you have a prostate). Some people like to remain wrist-deep, but if you&#8217;re feeling it, the giver can move even further, allowing more of their arm to enter the anus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Best Anal Fisting Toys<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>There are even toys that mimic fisting! This can be a great way to first try this kind of play. If you&#8217;re new to anal, we recommend that you learn <strong><a title=\"how to anal masturbate\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/solo-anal-masturbation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to anal masturbate<\/a><\/strong> by yourself first. If you&#8217;re a butt toy veteran, something bigger might be exciting and new. We here at b-Vibe have an amazing fisting toy that you should add to your must-haves list ASAP.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><a title=\"The Stuffer Hand Dildo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/master-series-the-stuffer-fisting-hand-dildo.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The&nbsp;Stuffer<\/a> <\/strong>looks exactly like a hand that is about to fist (it&#8217;s actually a good model to look at even if you&#8217;re using a hand instead of a toy). Even looking at it is a turn-on for would-be fisters, tbh. To use it, follow the same fisting instructions as above. Lube it up (liberally, seriously there is no such thing as too much lube during anal), and insert it into the anus slowly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be sure the receiver is breathing and their anus is relaxed. Don&#8217;t forget to warm up with smaller toys beforehand (pun absolutely intended). Once you&#8217;re ready for the big boys, you can try the <strong><a title=\"doc johnson fist dildo\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/doc-johnson-fist-dildo-14-inch.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">14-inch fist dildo<\/a><\/strong> by Doc Johnson.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re using your hands, you can always wear gloves! We talked about using gloves as a way to avoid getting fecal matter under your nails or on your hands, remember? Why not take it up a notch with a glove that has different toys on its ends? Check out the&nbsp;<strong><a title=\"Oxballs Finger Play Glove\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/oxballs-finger-play-glove.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Oxballs Finger Play Glove<\/a><\/strong>. If anal fisting is something you want to add to the regular menu, you don&#8217;t want to miss out on these.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Anal Fisting Tips for Aftercare<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s essential that you address your partner&#8217;s emotional and physical needs after anal play.&nbsp;If you&#8217;ve read our guide on&nbsp;<strong><a title=\"anal sex aftercare\" rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/anal-sex-aftercare\/\" target=\"_blank\">anal sex aftercare<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;guide, you&#8217;ll know that there are two main types of care:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. Physical Care<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>So once you&#8217;ve finished with fisting, it&#8217;s time for a solid clean up. Both partners should hop in the shower and fully lather up. If you weren&#8217;t using gloves, be sure to use antibacterial soap to clean your hands and arms, paying special attention to under the nails.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you were using toys, read the directions and clean them according to the protocol. It&#8217;s extremely important that you fully sanitize all <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/all-anal-toys\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/all-anal-toys\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">anal toys<\/a><\/strong> after every single use.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We recommend using an&nbsp;<strong><a title=\"b-Vibe Organic Sex Toy Cleaner\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/organic-toy-cleaner.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anti-bacterial sex toy cleaner<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;along with the&nbsp;<a title=\"b-Vibe UV sterilizer pouch\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/accessories\/uv-sterilizer-pouch.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>UV sterilizer pouch<\/strong><\/a>&nbsp;for good measure. You&#8217;ll probably want to wash your sheets and any towels that you used after engaging in anal play. Going to sleep in sheets that were exposed to fecal matter is never the best plan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. Emotional Care<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Emotional care is just as important when it comes to anal fisting. This is an intense sexual experience and it can evoke a plethora of different feelings. You might feel amazing, you could experience shame or embarrassment, or even sadness. It doesn&#8217;t mean the experience wasn&#8217;t wonderful, it&#8217;s just that sex is a very emotional act and when we&#8217;re exploring it, a range of emotions can come up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/anal-fisting-aftercare.jpg\" alt=\"Be sure to check in on your partner after an anal fisting session\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Take time to cuddle and reconnect with your partner. Talk about what worked and what didn&#8217;t. This is a practice and it takes trial and error to find the perfect fisting experience. Take care of each other emotionally and you&#8217;ll both feel better giving this play another try.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8211;&nbsp;<em>Gigi Engle is a certified sex coach, educator, and author of&nbsp;All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life. Follow her on Instagram and X (formely Twitter) at @GigiEngle.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A final word: &#8220;Don&#8217;t expect to take a whole fist the first time you try \u2014&nbsp;or even the twentieth time. Some folks say that fisting is a lot like doing the splits or learning to ease into yoga poses. Each time you try, you&#8217;ll probably relax and open more than you did the last time.&#8221; <\/strong>\u2014&nbsp;<em>Carlyle Jansen, Author of Sex Yourself and Anal Sex Basics.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Enjoyed reading this&nbsp;anal fisting guide? 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