{"id":703,"date":"2016-09-27T10:45:55","date_gmt":"2016-09-27T10:45:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/?p=703"},"modified":"2024-11-05T09:10:36","modified_gmt":"2024-11-05T09:10:36","slug":"anal-talk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/anal-talk\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Talk About Anal Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Once you\u2019ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your wife, husband, or partner. If they\u2019ve already said that they\u2019re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, having the anal talk can work better with a little planning.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Looking for a TL;DR version of this guide on how to have an anal sex chat? 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font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/C5TUmAOufQG\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by b-Vibe (@bvibe.social)<\/a><\/p><\/div><\/blockquote>\n<script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Don&#8217;t Make Anal A Surprise<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The most important thing to remember is to never surprise someone with anal play. While many people love anal sex and would enjoy adding it to their sexual repertoire, not everyone does. Some people have never tried it. Some people have tried it and it didn&#8217;t work out. Some people have tried it and had discomfort or pain. Some people have had partners pressure them into it. And unfortunately, some people have experienced sexual trauma with anal play. If you just go for it without talking first, there\u2019s a possibility that the entire experience will be a train wreck.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"939\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-01-1024x939.jpg\" alt=\"Don't make anal sex a suprise\" class=\"wp-image-3543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-01-1024x939.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-01-300x275.jpg 300w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-01-768x704.jpg 768w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-01.jpg 1201w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The best time to bring up an anal sex discussion is when you aren\u2019t having sex. If your partner isn\u2019t into anal play, for any reason, that talk will be a lot easier when there isn\u2019t a lot of erotic energy going on. One good way to lead up to the conversation is to say something like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8211; &#8220;I&#8217;m sort of curious about anal sex, and I&#8217;ve been reading about it online. Is that something that you&#8217;d be interested in exploring?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8211; &#8220;I enjoy anal play and I&#8217;m wondering if you do too?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8211;&nbsp;&#8220;If you&#8217;re into it, I&#8217;d enjoy trying anal play with you.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8211; &#8220;I&#8217;ve been fantasizing about anal sex and I would really like to experience that with you.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are more neutral ways to introduce the topic without creating pressure. Pleasurable anal play is all about helping the receiver relax. You can start by talking about it in a low-stakes way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Give Them Time to Think About It<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Some folks will be an enthusiastic yes during your anal talk. But others might need some time to think about it, especially if they&#8217;ve had uncomfortable experiences in the past. If their answer isn\u2019t an immediate yes, tell your partner that you don&#8217;t want to pressure them at all. Ask them if they\u2019d like to take some time to decide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"939\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-discussion-1024x939.jpg\" alt=\"Always give your partner plenty of time to decide if they want to have anal sex\" class=\"wp-image-3545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-discussion-1024x939.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-discussion-300x275.jpg 300w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-discussion-768x704.jpg 768w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-discussion.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Be sure to give them that time before bringing up the anal sex chat again. Don\u2019t rush them, and don\u2019t try to \u201caccidentally\u201d include anal play when you have sex with them. You might find it easier to pick a time to circle back and see how they feel. Give them a few days or maybe a week before raising the topic again. Or pick a time together to come back to the conversation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Offer Them Info on Anal Play<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the most common reasons for uncomfortable or painful anal play is not knowing how to do it right. You can offer your partner a lot of reassurance during your&nbsp;anal talk by telling them that you&#8217;ve been doing your research.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"939\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/b-vibe-anal-academy-1024x939.jpg\" alt=\"b-Vibe Anal Academy is where you will learn everything there is to know about anal sex\" class=\"wp-image-3548\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/b-vibe-anal-academy-1024x939.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/b-vibe-anal-academy-300x275.jpg 300w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/b-vibe-anal-academy-768x704.jpg 768w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/b-vibe-anal-academy.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><span>Show them the <strong><a title=\"Anal Academy\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-academy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Anal Academy<\/a><\/strong>&nbsp;on the b-Vibe website and give them a chance to read it. The more you both know about how to make anal feel great, the easier it\u2019ll be to give it a try. Plus, if your partner has confidence in your knowledge, it\u2019ll help them feel more relaxed and able to experiment with you.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">If They Say No To Anal<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It can be disappointing if your partner decides they don&#8217;t want to try anal play. That feeling is totally understandable, and it\u2019s important not to let that damage your relationship. If your partner isn\u2019t into anal sex, do your best not to pressure them or try to convince them to change their mind. That\u2019s far more likely to cause problems than improve things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"940\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-02-1024x940.jpg\" alt=\"Do not be disappointed if your partner does not want to have anal sex\" class=\"wp-image-3546\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-02-1024x940.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-02-300x275.jpg 300w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-02-768x705.jpg 768w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/anal-sex-talk-02.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The best thing you can do is thank them for being honest with you about what they want. You can also ask them to tell you what it is about anal play that makes them not want to try it. There might be some middle ground or problem-solving to be done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span>For example, if your partner says that they\u2019ve tried anal sex and it hurt, you can let them know that you\u2019re also interested in exploring external touch, without any penetration \u2014 such as <strong><a title=\"how to perform analingus\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/analingus\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">analingus<\/a><\/strong> (AKA eating ass) and <strong><a title=\"how to anal massage\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/anal-massage\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anal massaging<\/a><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If they\u2019re concerned about hygiene, you can read one of the most popular guides on the internet about <strong><a title=\"how to clean for anal\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-hygiene\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to clean for anal<\/a><\/strong>. Finding an answer to address their concerns will be a lot easier if you can avoid pressuring them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, that won\u2019t work in every situation. If your partner has a firm limit around anal play, the best thing to do is accept that and look for other ways to enjoy sex together. Remember- there are lots of ways to have sex and anal play is only one option.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">If They Say Yes To Anal<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If your partner is up for trying anal play, there are still things to talk about first. Here are some good questions to ask them during your anal talk:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8211; &#8220;Have you done it before? What is your favorite <strong><a title=\"anal sex position\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/best-anal-sex-positions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anal sex position<\/a><\/strong>?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8211; &#8220;Are you interested in using a toy like the <strong><a title=\"Rimming Plug\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/rimming-plug-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rimming Plug<\/a><\/strong>? Have you ever used <strong><a title=\"anal toys\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-toys\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anal toys<\/a><\/strong>?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8211; &#8220;What is it about&nbsp;anal&nbsp;play that you enjoy, do not enjoy, or are curious about?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8211; &#8220;What would make this feel like a successful experience for you?&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"940\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/how-to-talk-you-wife-into-anal-1024x940.jpg\" alt=\"Consent and communication is important when talking to your wife or partner about having anal sex\" class=\"wp-image-3547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/how-to-talk-you-wife-into-anal-1024x940.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/how-to-talk-you-wife-into-anal-300x275.jpg 300w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/how-to-talk-you-wife-into-anal-768x705.jpg 768w, https:\/\/static.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/09\/how-to-talk-you-wife-into-anal.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 709px) 85vw, (max-width: 909px) 67vw, (max-width: 1362px) 62vw, 840px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>These kinds of questions will give you some useful info about your partner\u2019s desires. For example, if anal play turns them on because it feels taboo to them, that\u2019s different from enjoying it because of the physical sensations. The more you know about why your partner wants to have anal sex, and the more you can tell them about why you want to do it, the more you can create an experience that will leave you both smiling.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s also good to make sure that their \u201cyes\u201d means \u201cI definitely want to do this\u201d rather than \u201cI don\u2019t really want to, but I\u2019ll go along with it.\u201d Going along with it can make any kind of sex feel less successful, but it\u2019s especially likely to make anal play not work. The body won\u2019t respond in a pleasurable manner if they don&#8217;t really mean \u201coh, yes!\u201d And if you pressure them or get upset about it, it\u2019s only going to make it worse. 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