Your body doesn’t care whether the stress is because you\u2019ve been stuck in traffic, you had a bad day at work, or you\u2019re nervous about anal play hurting (especially if you\u2019ve had uncomfortable or painful experiences with it before). The worry and anxiety can make the anus tighten up. That causes discomfort, which makes it tighten up more and causes pain.That\u2019s simply how bodies are wired and it doesn\u2019t do much good to try to force it. <\/p>\n
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Pleasurable anal play isn\u2019t about making someone open up. It\u2019s about helping them relax into it so their body wants to do it. Even someone who has a lot of experience with anal play can have a stressful day. So the fact that they could do it the last time doesn\u2019t always mean that they can relax today. If you try to make your body or your partner\u2019s body do more than it can do, you\u2019ll probably train it to fear anal play and make it more difficult to enjoy.<\/p>\n
This week’s topic is Anal Anatomy<\/em>, follow these links to read the rest of the series!<\/strong> Your body doesn’t care whether the stress is because you\u2019ve been stuck in traffic, you had a bad day at work, or you\u2019re nervous about anal play hurting (especially if you\u2019ve had uncomfortable or painful experiences with it before). The worry and anxiety can make the anus tighten up. That … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2255,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-91","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anal-play-advice"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=91"}],"version-history":[{"count":20,"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2391,"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91\/revisions\/2391"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2255"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=91"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=91"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bvibe.com\/anal-play-101\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=91"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nPart 1 – Two Rings of Muscle<\/a>
\nPart 2 \u2013 The Physical Response to Stress
\nPart 3 \u2013 Taking Care of the Skin<\/a>
\nPart 4 \u2013 Learning to Relax<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"