Pleasure Educator and Sex Toy Reviewer
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Carly Steif, who publishes as Carly S., is a New York pleasure educator and the writer behind the sex toy review blog Dildo or Dildon't.
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Carly Steif, who publishes as Carly S., is a New York pleasure educator and the writer behind Dildo or Dildon’t, a blog of sex toy reviews and how-to guides. Known online as the “Queen of Wands,” she writes candid, detailed toy reviews and inclusive, body-positive guides, and she has been quoted as a pleasure expert by outlets including Healthline.
Her background is in sex toy retail. She has managed The Pleasure Chest’s Manhattan store, where she taught free workshops, and has worked as product manager for the online retailer Spectrum Boutique. She has taught at events including Exxxotica, Sex Expo and Sex Down South, was nominated for XBIZ Sexpert of the Year in 2023 and 2024, and has written for XBIZ, Autostraddle and the Le Wand and b-Vibe blogs on topics from squirting to nudity and body image.
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