When you see the term “ass worship”, your mind may quickly jump to anal sex and anal play. This is incorrect. Anal play and ass worship, while often containing overlapping actions, are not the same thing.

As a long-time dominatrix and sex educator, I continue to be thrown by things people think of as “fetish.” I’ve had submissive clients come to my dungeon waiting to experience simple anal pleasure, as well as publishers asking me to remove vibrators from my work because they were considered obscene. …

Do you remember the joy of running around naked when you were a child? Before you learned shamed about your naked body. The opulent feeling of freedom and pure fun that you felt then? The feel of the sun, wind, and water against our bare bodies is so natural and …

Every June, the queer community and its allies gear up to celebrate National Pride Month and all that it represents. Since this year is the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, the occasion holds a particular gravitas. While Pride Month was initially established to commemorate the violent police raids and …

Guess what? I know that you know we all masturbate. I know you have that special way you like to orgasm with your special toys, or special position or that special pillow you lay on. I know that you have masturbated in places you’d never admit to—let along vocalize that …

Are you loud and proud about your sexual freedom (or at least quietly grateful that you’ve got easy access to birth control and sex toys)? Believe it or not, just a few decades ago you could potentially face social persecution and even serious threats for showing off your LGBTQ+ pride …