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When you think of penis pumps, you likely think of Austin Powers, who famously brought them to mainstream culture. However, they are a real thing that people can, and in many circumstances, should use. It all depends on what you’re hoping to achieve from the penis pump. (I’m letting you know now, it’s not …
Mar 23, 2022
Welcome back to #AssMeAnything, the place where all butt-related questions and queries are tackled with sex-positivity and shame-free advice. My name is Alexander Cheves — I write about sex, kink, porn, and all sorts of delightful things. Without further ado, let’s dive into this month’s questions. Hi, I’m into electro estim …
Mar 10, 2022
Ah, erotic spanking – the wonderful sensation of combining pleasure and just the right amount of pain! Spanking during sex has been around for thousands of years. Archeologists have found frescos by the Etruscan civilization dating as far back as the fifth century BCE. One fresco, in particular, reveals three …
Feb 28, 2022
Hi comrades. With the holidays over and COVID cases rising in the United States, many folks are likely retreating back to their bedrooms and returning to their old friends, butt plugs and P-spot massagers, dildos, and dongs. I recently separated from my partner of four years, and it was hard. …
Feb 10, 2022
Wondering if butt sex is gay sex? Need an anal-gasm explainer? Join Alexander Cheves on this edition of ASS Me Anything as we move up from the rear of the class.
Jan 10, 2022
What is comfort sex? How do I have it? Sex educator Dirty Lola gives you a complete 101 on sex that will leave you feeling happy and satisfied!
Dec 28, 2021
Welcome back to #AssMeAnything. I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer, butt demon, and author of the new book My Love Is a Beast: Confessions — a graphic sex memoir about my journey into happy sluthood. This is a safe space to ask questions on all things anal. Keep reading for …
Dec 16, 2021
The holidays are here, and what better present is there than the gift of unadulterated pleasure? That’s why you absolutely should give everyone you know a sex toy. Your partner? Obviously. Yourself? Duh. Your parents? Yes, even them! Whether we like to admit it or not, our parents (likely) do …
Dec 07, 2021
There are two great physical pleasures in the world: food and sex. So, naturally, people want to combine them. Whipped cream, blueberries, chocolate, milk, even pasta sauce—you can add any food or drink into your sex life. In fact, I was once at my friend’s place—and before it turned into …
Nov 16, 2021
Howdy and welcome back to #AssMeAnything! This is a place to send questions on all things anal. My name is Alexander Cheves. I’m a sex writer and educator. As I write, my butt is nicely sore from a really fun ass session two nights ago — the great feeling of …
Nov 09, 2021
Welcome back to #AMA! I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer who recently published a book! If you’re interested in all the gritty details of my sexual journey, look for My Love Is a Beast, Confessions, which will publish in bookstores nationwide on October 12th from Unbound Edition Press. I’m here …
Oct 21, 2021
Follow sex educator Dirty Lola on a journey of everything you need to know bout massaging the booty hole!
Oct 19, 2021
Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Coming in fresh for 2022, here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
Oct 11, 2021
A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex
