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Ass Me Anything Third Issue
We’re back with a new #AMA! I’m Alexander Cheves, author, sex educator, and butt slut, here to answer your questions on all things anal. We’ve gotten several questions about fisting, which is really fascinating to me. When I first got into fisting about eight years ago, it was a heavily …
Sex educator Zachary Zane explains how to use a butt plug and cock ring combo toy
In my humble opinion, cock rings are one of the most underutilized sex toys for penis owners, which is ridiculous, given how simple they are to use. You just slide one over the base of your penis (and, depending on the ring, around your testicles too). That’s it—you’re in business!  …
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You may be wondering, can a butt plug really be a couple’s toy and the answer is YES. Besides being a great way to experiment with double penetration during penetrative sex, butt plugs can be utilized in all kinds of play scenarios. They’re great for your solo play adventures, but …
Alexander Cheves answers your questions on fisting, over-douching, and how to safely use a dildo
Welcome back to Ass Me Anything. I’m Alexander Cheves, sex writer and noted butt pig, here to answer your ass questions. b-Vibe has collected more queries from customers and followers, and since these answers are a bit longer than our inaugural post, I won’t waste any time and get right to …
Sex educator Zachary Zane shares his best anal tips for experienced bottoms
There are a growing number of articles out there for folks new to anal play. These pieces provide necessary introductory information like communicating with your partner, don’t clench, and stop if anything feels painful. While this is fantastic, I’ve noticed there are hardly any articles dedicated to folks who have been …
Sex educator Dirty Lola introduces the new b-Vibe Vibrating Jewel Plugs
Sure, you probably know your birthstone… but do you know your Butt Stone?! Do you know what your birthstone is? My birthstone is a ruby. I’ve grown to love it, but it wouldn’t have been my first choice. Unfortunately, that’s how it works. Birthstones are assigned to you according to the …
Sex writer Alexander Cheves answers all of your questions on anal sex
Looking for some anal answers? Our first edition of Ass Me Anything with Alexander Cheves is here to put your ass-umptions to rest!
3 Porn stars share their best tips on getting fisted
I have never been fisted. Have I fisted other men’s anuses? Oh, absolutely. The first time I did It, I was shocked by two things. First, where the heck did my arm just go? I was perplexed by the human anatomy. Second, I was surprised by just how much pleasure …
Sex educator Dirty Lola shares a 101 guide on how to use rimming plugs
Rimming, also known as analingus, tossing salad, and eating groceries, is the act of orally pleasuring the anus by licking, sucking, kissing, etcetera. Basically, any pleasurable act that involves anal to oral contact.
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I love putting things up my butt. Penises, dildos, prostate massagers, anal beads, butt plugs—you name it—I love it. But I know I’m special. I’m not like other guys out there. (Well, I should clarify, I’m not like many other straight men out there. Gay/bi/queer bottoms definitely love things in their behind!) Still, I …
Learn everything about weighted butt plugs in this Snug Plugs 101 guide by Dirty Lola
The ever-popular Snugs Plugs are b-Vibe’s torpedo-shaped answers to the weighted butt plug!
Sex educator Zachary Zane and Dr. Evan Goldstein share their top tips on how to prevent anal fissures
Anal fissures are the worst, but luckily, they’re easy to prevent and treat!
Sex educator Dirty Lola shares the most important tips to ensure good sexual hygiene during anal play
After everything we’ve been through over the year, we all know how crucial good hygiene is, but that’s the last thing on anyone’s mind when things are getting hot and heavy. That being said, sex is messy, and creating health-centered rituals before, during, and after sex can go a long …

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Why do women enjoy anal sex? Our certified sex educators dispel the stigmas surrounding anal and why couples love butt play.
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …
5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s almost 2020 and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it out.
One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend that anal sex is supposed to hurt or that somehow, it magically shifts from ouch to awesome. But if it ever does feel uncomfortable, there are better ways to deal with that …
A guide on anal talk and how to prepare for first time anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, anal talk can work better with a little planning. 
Sex educators reveal how to choose the best anal lube
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for anal play. Why do you need lube for anal play? The anus doesn’t naturally …
Vibrating anal plugs are becoming increasingly popular among all couples. Read our expert guide on how to use a butt plug for anal pleasure and stimulation.
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
An illustrated guide on the 11 best anal sex positions
When it comes to making anal play feel great, it’s important to get the ergonomics sorted out. The right position can make everything more comfortable and enjoyable, for both the giver and the receiver. Here are the 11 best anal sex positions. Best Anal Sex Positions – Facing Down One of …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner to an anal massage with these 8 sensual moves. Why You Should Give Your …
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