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- Anal for Men: Does it make me or my boyfriend gay?
- Lube: How to choose the best lube for anal
- Anal for Women: Does it mean I’m a slut?
- Foreplay: How to give an anal massage
- Myth Debunked: Does anal sex hurt?
- Positions: The best positions for anal sex
- Communication: How to talk about anal
- Toys: What is a butt plug?
- Hygiene: How to prepare for first time anal
- Prostate: How to give a prostate massage
When you see the term “ass worship”, your mind may quickly jump to anal sex and anal play. This is incorrect. Anal play and ass worship, while often containing overlapping actions, are not the same thing. What is ass worship? The difference between your classic idea of “anal play” and …
As a long-time dominatrix and sex educator, I continue to be thrown by things people think of as “fetish.” I’ve had submissive clients come to my dungeon waiting to experience simple anal pleasure, as well as publishers asking me to remove vibrators from my work because they were considered obscene. …
Do you remember the joy of running around naked when you were a child? Before you learned shamed about your naked body. The opulent feeling of freedom and pure fun that you felt then? The feel of the sun, wind, and water against our bare bodies is so natural and …
This year we are celebrating 50 years of Pride. From the riots started by black, Latinx and trans folks that sparked the movement, the push for AIDS awareness and research, to the fight for marriage equality, we have made so much progress. But there is still a lot of work to …
Every June, the queer community and its allies gear up to celebrate National Pride Month and all that it represents. Since this year is the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, the occasion holds a particular gravitas. While Pride Month was initially established to commemorate the violent police raids and …
Why Mutual Masturbation is Healthy in Relationships (and How You Can Try It) — Gigi Engle Contrary to one of the many popular sexual myths that pervade our anti-sex culture, masturbation does not stop (nor should it) once you’re in a committed relationship. There’s this weird AF notion that if …
Welcome to ass class! A workshop on taboo, desire & communication, and debunking anal myths. First of all, happy Masturbation May to all of you! This is an excellent time of the year to reclaim ownership over our sexualities, get reconnected to our bodies and pleasure, and to like our …
Is Masturbation Good For You? — Laura Delarato Guess what? I know that you know we all masturbate. I know you have that special way you like to orgasm with your special toys, or special position or that special pillow you lay on. I know that you have masturbated in …
Sex toys can help bring an additional element of pleasure into your partnered sex. Check out some of our favorite couples sex toys for partner play, regardless of gender or orientation!
Sticking to your usual tried and true sex positions can feel comfortable and reliable, and it’s easy to fall into a routine of having sex the same way each time. Spicing up your sex life can be as simple as figuring out new ways to fit your body together with …
