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Learn what anal surfacing is and how to get started to experience anal pleasure without penetration
When people think of sex, we often default to penetration, when the reality is there’s so much more to sex than repeatedly poking things in and out of holes. In this issue of Queeries, Bobby Box grazes the surface of Anal Surfacing.
What is Post-Nut Clarity
How is it that our minds can instantly change so drastically by simply ejaculating? Is there legitimate science behind post nut clarity? Bobby Box sets our minds at ease with this edition of Queeries.
How to keep an erection while bottoming during anal sex
Struggling to get hard while bottoming? Is it normal for bottoms to lose their erections during sex? Our resident anal expert Bobby Box spoke with Dr. Evan Goldstein about flaccid penises and share some possible solutions to maintain erections.
Professional photographer's guide on how to take a dick pic
Looking to upgrade your locked Grindr album game? Want to surprise your boo with a tease for later? Or maybe you want to break into your OF era. We consulted with b-Vibe’s resident photographer, Shawn P. Griffin on how to take a dick pic.
Sex educator Amanda Chatel gives a 101 tutorial guide on jelqing penis stretching exercises
If you’ve never heard of jelqinq, then pull up a chair because this is a fun one — and not only because jelqing tantalizes the tongue when it’s said out loud. Jelqing is a penis stretching exercise that’s supposed to increase penile size, in both length and girth, leading to …
Learn about the benefits of using stainless steel sex toys for anal
What’s body-safe, lasts a lifetime, and can be completely sterilized? You guessed it, stainless steel sex toys! Bobby Box trains us on these amazing, shiny sphincter stretchers in this edition of the Queeries.
Guide to Anal Gaping and Stretching
Simply put, anal gaping is the ability to open the anus for an extended period of time. But what are the advantages of doing this and how can we do it safely? Bobby Box spoke to Dr. Evan Goldstein on how to gape and open your Cave of Wonders wider …
Complete Guide on PrEP
PrEP is often seen as trailblazing the eradication of HIV and AIDS. But exactly what is it, and what are some precautions to consider when taking it? Sex educator Bobby Box breaks down the wonder pill in this Queeries article.
Prostate Activation, Health, and Pleasure for Trans Women Post-Op
Pleasure for Trans Women can be a difficult topic to find information on. And the importance of knowing how to navigate pleasure can mean avoiding health issues. Dr. Brenda Rodriquez Alegre, a Psychologist, Gender Studies Lecturer, and Trans Woman, discusses anatomy and why it is important to activate your prostate …
Sex journalist Bobby Box explains about rainbow capitalism and what to look out for when supporting companies during Pride
What is rainbow capitalism? Which companies are guilty of “pink-washing”? Sex journalist Bobby Box highlights five things to look out for during Pride month.
b-Vibe speaks with Todd Masterson aka GayFatFriend about Body Positivity
The Body Positivity movement was started as a way to show people that all bodies are acceptable, desirable, and valid. But as Pride comes into full swing, what should we do when a lack of understanding turns “positivity” into an insult? Todd Masterson aka @GayFatFriend talks us through the misunderstandings …
Learn everything about golden showers and how to get started with pee play
How did they gain popularity? Are they safe? In our latest Queeries, Bobby Box dips into this undulating BDSM kink on golden showers to help you explore and get started with pee play.
Learn how to safely double anal penetration the butt with these tips from DP expert Alex Cheves
Double-stuffin’ the butt is a hot and full-filling fantasy for many, but without the right precautions, it can hurt or even cause injury. Seasoned DP expert Alex Cheves shares his tried & tested double anal penetration tips!

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
Why do women enjoy anal sex? Our certified sex educators dispel the stigmas surrounding anal and why couples love butt play.
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …
5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first-ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s been almost a decade since we first launched and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it …
One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
Why does anal sex hurt? Can I use a numbing cream during anal play? We asked certified sex educators to answer all your questions on how to make anal sex less painful. While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend …
Learn how to talk to your partner or wife about having anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your wife, husband, or partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, having the anal talk can work better with a little …
Sex educators reveal how to choose the best anal lube
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for all types of anal play.
Vibrating anal plugs are becoming increasingly popular among all couples. Read our expert guide on how to use a butt plug for anal pleasure and stimulation.
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner with these 8 sensual anal massaging techniques.
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