Take intimacy to new places with our strap-on dildos, specially designed for harness and pegging play. These dildos have flared bases or compatible attachments that fit securely into strap-on harnesses, empowering all genders to give or receive penetrative pleasure.
"Strap on dildo" covers a wider range of products than most people realize. The classic setup is a harness dildo - a separate silicone dildo that attaches to an O-ring harness worn around the hips. You pick the size, shape, and firmness; the harness holds everything in place. It's the most versatile setup, and the one most people picture first.
Then there are strapless designs. No harness required. These stay in place using an internal bulb that the wearer holds inside themselves, creating stimulation for both people simultaneously. The strapless together vibrating design adds motors for both partners - shared vibration, no straps, hands-free.
Curve matters too. A straight dildo and a G-spot curve deliver very different sensations. If prostate or G-spot stimulation is the goal, an angled shaft targets that spot far more effectively than a neutral profile. Worth knowing before you choose.
Every strap on dildo in the range is body-safe silicone - non-porous, phthalate-free, easy to clean. Pair with water-based lubricant every time. And take time with fit and sizing: a harness dildo that's slightly too large for the wearer's experience level won't deliver the session you were hoping for.
Strap-on play is for everyone, regardless of gender, orientation, or relationship structure. Solo use, partnered play, pegging, and double penetration all fall under this category. The right product depends on what you want the experience to feel like.
Find the Right Strap On Dildo
Browse the b-Vibe range:
Harness Dildos - Designed for standard O-ring harnesses. Mix and match size, firmness, and curve to suit your setup exactly.
Strapless Designs - Held in place by an internal bulb, no harness needed. Both partners receive stimulation simultaneously.
Vibrating Strap-Ons - Motors built into the shaft or base add intensity during penetration. Multiple patterns, adjustable speeds.
G-Spot and Prostate Dildos - Curved profiles angled to hit the G-spot or P-spot (about 2-3 inches inside the rectum) precisely.
Double Dildos - Shared penetration with no harness required. A fully mutual experience.
Beginner Hands-Free Options - Slim profiles, moderate length, softer silicone for first-timers building confidence at their own pace.
Frequently Asked Questions about Strap-On Dildos
What size strap on dildo should I start with?
Start slimmer than you think you need - a diameter around 1 to 1.25 inches and a length of 5 to 6 inches is a solid starting point for most beginners. Realistic-feeling silicone with slight give is more forgiving than a fully firm shaft. You can always size up once you know what works.
What's the difference between a harness dildo and a strapless strap-on?
A harness dildo attaches to an O-ring harness worn around the hips - secure, adjustable, and works in a wide range of positions. A strapless design uses an internal bulb held inside the wearer instead of straps, which means simultaneous stimulation for both partners.
Do I need a harness to use a strap on dildo?
Not necessarily. Strapless strap-ons are designed specifically for harness-free use. That said, harness setups offer more positional control and tend to stay put more reliably during vigorous activity. New to strap-on play? A harness setup is usually easier to manage until you've got the mechanics down.
Can strap on dildos be used for anal play?
Yes - many work equally well for anal penetration, but check the base design first. For anal play, a flared base is non-negotiable. All b-Vibe silicone dildos are designed with retrieval in mind.
How do I clean a silicone strap on dildo?
Wash with warm water and dedicated toy cleaner after every use. Non-motorized silicone dildos can also be boiled for 3 to 5 minutes or run through the top rack of a dishwasher (no detergent). Dry completely before storing. Always use water-based lubricant with silicone toys - silicone-based lubes can degrade the material over time.
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