Sexual Health

How to keep an erection while bottoming during anal sex
Struggling to get hard while bottoming? Is it normal for bottoms to lose their erections during sex? Our resident anal expert Bobby Box spoke with Dr. Evan Goldstein about flaccid penises and share some possible solutions to maintain erections.
Complete Guide on PrEP
PrEP is often seen as trailblazing the eradication of HIV and AIDS. But exactly what is it, and what are some precautions to consider when taking it? Sex educator Bobby Box breaks down the wonder pill in this Queeries article.
Prostate Activation, Health, and Pleasure for Trans Women Post-Op
Pleasure for Trans Women can be a difficult topic to find information on. And the importance of knowing how to navigate pleasure can mean avoiding health issues. Dr. Brenda Rodriquez Alegre, a Psychologist, Gender Studies Lecturer, and Trans Woman, discusses anatomy and why it is important to activate your prostate …
Prostate Cancer Awareness
When it comes to the prostate, people often think of two things: procreation and pleasure. Other than that, though, there isn’t much health-related knowledge available regarding this sexually significant part of the body.
Sex educator Bobby Box teaches how to have safer bareback sex
From a sensational perspective, people tend to prefer bareback sex. The primary reason being that barrier methods, like condoms, can lessen the deeply carnal and coveted sensation of sex.
How to have anal sex if you suffer from irritable bowel syndrome
Don’t let your tushie troubles get in the way of your anal sex experiences! Dr. Evan Goldstein walks us through the precautions and busts the myths behind butt stuff and IBS.
Sex educator Zachary Zane and Dr. Evan Goldstein share their top tips on how to prevent anal fissures
What causes anal fissures, and how can they be prevented? How long should you wait before engaging in anal sex after experiencing a fissure? We asked Dr. Evan Goldstein, the most renowned anal surgeon, to answer your frequently asked questions!
The 7 health benefits of having orgasms
Pleasure is vital to living a healthy life, but it is often left out of the conversation when discussing sexual health. Usually, the focus is on reproduction, pregnancy prevention, and STI prevention. While those are essential parts of sexual health, there are also many health benefits associated with seeking sexual …
Sex educator Dirty Lola shares her guide to practicing safe sex during Pride
Put simply, safe sex is the practice of protecting yourself and your partners/ prospective partners from sexually transmitted infections.

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
Why do women enjoy anal sex? Our certified sex educators dispel the stigmas surrounding anal and why couples love butt play.
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …
5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first-ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s been almost a decade since we first launched and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it …
One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
Why does anal sex hurt? Can I use a numbing cream during anal play? We asked certified sex educators to answer all your questions on how to make anal sex less painful. While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend …
Learn how to talk to your partner or wife about having anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your wife, husband, or partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, having the anal talk can work better with a little …
Sex educators reveal how to choose the best anal lube
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for all types of anal play.
Vibrating anal plugs are becoming increasingly popular among all couples. Read our expert guide on how to use a butt plug for anal pleasure and stimulation.
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner with these 8 sensual anal massaging techniques.
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