Anal Play Advice

Sex educator Zachary Zane explains how to use a butt plug and cock ring combo toy
In my humble opinion, cock rings are one of the most underutilized sex toys for penis owners, which is ridiculous, given how simple they are to use. You just slide one over the base of your penis (and, depending on the ring, around your testicles too). That’s it—you’re in business!  …
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You may be wondering, can a butt plug really be a couple’s toy and the answer is YES. Besides being a great way to experiment with double penetration during penetrative sex, butt plugs can be utilized in all kinds of play scenarios. They’re great for your solo play adventures, but …
Sex educator Zachary Zane shares his best anal tips for experienced bottoms
There are a growing number of articles out there for folks new to anal play. These pieces provide necessary introductory information like communicating with your partner, don’t clench, and stop if anything feels painful. While this is fantastic, I’ve noticed there are hardly any articles dedicated to folks who have been …
3 Porn stars share their best tips on getting fisted
I have never been fisted. Have I fisted other men’s anuses? Oh, absolutely. The first time I did It, I was shocked by two things. First, where the heck did my arm just go? I was perplexed by the human anatomy. Second, I was surprised by just how much pleasure …
Sex educator Dirty Lola shares a 101 guide on how to use rimming plugs
Rimming, also known as analingus, tossing salad, and eating groceries, is the act of orally pleasuring the anus by licking, sucking, kissing, etcetera. Basically, any pleasurable act that involves anal to oral contact.
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I love putting things up my butt. Penises, dildos, prostate massagers, anal beads, butt plugs—you name it—I love it. But I know I’m special. I’m not like other guys out there. (Well, I should clarify, I’m not like many other straight men out there. Gay/bi/queer bottoms definitely love things in their behind!) Still, I …
Sex educator Zachary Zane and Dr. Evan Goldstein share their top tips on how to prevent anal fissures
Anal fissures are the worst, but luckily, they’re easy to prevent and treat!
Cannabis expert Ashely Manta reveals everything about using cannabis during anal play
Happy 4/20 and welcome to the glorious world of cannabis-assisted anal exploration. We’re glad you’re here. Whether you’re brand new or a seasoned traveler, this post is for you!
Sex expert Zachary Zane shares 6 lesson on how bottoming made him a better top
I used to be a bisexual man who exclusively topped. If anyone got near my butthole with either their hands, fingers, or a dildo, I’d shoot them a death glare and say, “Don’t you dare.” In 2021, I am still very much bisexual, but now I love to both top …
Sex educator Dirty Lola shares her best anal training tips
Spontaneous sex acts can be fun; however, certain intimate exploits, like anal sex and certain types of anal play, are a lot more fun when you take your time prepping for them.
Dirty Lola shares her tips on buying and using a big butt toy
Think you’re ready to expand your arse-nal, but not sure where to begin? Our resident plug-spert, Dirty Lola, walks us through all the steps your booty needs to consider when buying a big butt toy. There comes a time in everyone’s butt stuff journey when you begin to contemplate going …
What you need to know before you try the b-Vibe Snug Plug 6
Before taking the bigger plug plunge, you should first gauge if you’re ready for the next step. Here’s all the info you need to size up your sphincter!

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Why do women enjoy anal sex? Our certified sex educators dispel the stigmas surrounding anal and why couples love butt play.
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …
5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s almost 2020 and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it out.
One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend that anal sex is supposed to hurt or that somehow, it magically shifts from ouch to awesome. But if it ever does feel uncomfortable, there are better ways to deal with that …
A guide on anal talk and how to prepare for first time anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, anal talk can work better with a little planning. 
Sex educators reveal how to choose the best anal lube
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for anal play. Why do you need lube for anal play? The anus doesn’t naturally …
Vibrating anal plugs are becoming increasingly popular among all couples. Read our expert guide on how to use a butt plug for anal pleasure and stimulation.
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
An illustrated guide on the 11 best anal sex positions
When it comes to making anal play feel great, it’s important to get the ergonomics sorted out. The right position can make everything more comfortable and enjoyable, for both the giver and the receiver. Here are the 11 best anal sex positions. Best Anal Sex Positions – Facing Down One of …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner to an anal massage with these 8 sensual moves. Why You Should Give Your …
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