As a long-time dominatrix and sex educator, I continue to be thrown by things people think of as “fetish.” I’ve had submissive clients come to my dungeon waiting to experience simple anal pleasure, as well as publishers asking me to remove vibrators from my work because they were considered obscene. …

Do you remember the joy of running around naked when you were a child? Before you learned shamed about your naked body. The opulent feeling of freedom and pure fun that you felt then? The feel of the sun, wind, and water against our bare bodies is so natural and …

Put simply, safe sex is the practice of protecting yourself and your partners/ prospective partners from sexually transmitted infections.

Every June, the queer community and its allies gear up to celebrate National Pride Month and all that it represents. Since this year is the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, the occasion holds a particular gravitas. While Pride Month was initially established to commemorate the violent police raids and …

Guess what? I know that you know we all masturbate. I know you have that special way you like to orgasm with your special toys, or special position or that special pillow you lay on. I know that you have masturbated in places you’d never admit to—let along vocalize that …

Sticking to your usual tried and true sex positions can feel comfortable and reliable, and it’s easy to fall into a routine of having sex the same way each time. Spicing up your sex life can be as simple as figuring out new ways to fit your body together with …

Happy Bi Visibility Day to all our proudly bisexual and exploratory bi-curious peeps out there! Whether you’re out and proud or unsure of where you stand on the scale of gender attraction, today is your day to be unabashedly you. Liking both folks with vaginas and folks with a penis …

Think anal sex is as simple as finding a willing bum, applying some lube, and going for it? Not if you’re a b-Vibe fan, you don’t! We’ve covered the basics of turning anal sex and butt plug play into your new favorite activity, but you might not realize that there’s …

Are you loud and proud about your sexual freedom (or at least quietly grateful that you’ve got easy access to birth control and sex toys)? Believe it or not, just a few decades ago you could potentially face social persecution and even serious threats for showing off your LGBTQ+ pride …

Contrary to how anal play is shown in porn, a lot of people enjoy anal play when it’s an add-on to other kinds of sexual pleasure. Sure, there are plenty of folks who find that anal play, especially anal intercourse, is amazing fun on its own but for many others, …

Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …

One of the most common reasons people enjoy anal play, besides the physical pleasure, is how well it combines with fantasy play. Some people love the feeling of surrender and trust that comes with exploring that incredibly intimate part of their bodies. The feeling of naughtiness that arises from doing …