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Alexander Cheves is an award-winning writer on sex, culture and queer masculinity. A Deep South native now living in Berlin, he is the founding editor of the European nightlife magazine Hinterhaus.
Born in 1992 and raised in the American Deep South, Alexander Cheves is a Berlin-based writer covering sex, art, culture and queer masculinity. His work has won the Geoff Mains Nonfiction Prize from NLA International and earned awards and nominations from GLAAD, Out Magazine and the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association. He is also the founding editor of Hinterhaus, a magazine covering nightlife across Europe.
Double-stuffin’ the butt is a hot and full-filling fantasy for many, but without the right precautions, it can hurt or even cause injury. Seasoned DP expert…
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If you Google “enema play,” you will form — along with a handful of articles that treat enema fetishes (the scientific name is klismaphilia) as a mental…
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What is the best penis size for anal? Is bigger better? Short answer: No, not really.
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Welcome back to #AssMeAnything, the place where all butt-related questions and queries are tackled with sex-positivity and shame-free advice. My name is Alexander Cheves — I write…
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I recently separated from my partner of four years, and it was hard. We had a loving and amicable breakup — a mutual decoupling, an agreement…
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Wondering if butt sex is gay sex? Need an anal-gasm explainer? Join Alexander Cheves on this edition of ASS Me Anything as we move up from…
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Welcome back to #AssMeAnything. I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer, butt demon, and author of the new book My Love Is a Beast: Confessions — a…
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Howdy and welcome back to #AssMeAnything! This is a place to send questions on all things anal. My name is Alexander Cheves. I’m a sex writer…
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Welcome back to #AMA! I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer who recently published a book! If you’re interested in all the gritty details of my…
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