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Sex writer Alexander Cheves answers questions regarding penis size for advanced anal
Is bigger better? Short answer: No, not really. In most cases, dick size has no impact on how good a top can make me feel. His charisma, uniqueness, nerve, and talent go further than a few inches. Fact: Every bottom has been fucked by an XL top who had no sense of …
Ass Me Anything Ninth Issue with Alexander Cheves
Welcome back to #AssMeAnything, the place where all butt-related questions and queries are tackled with sex-positivity and shame-free advice. My name is Alexander Cheves — I write about sex, kink, porn, and all sorts of delightful things. Without further ado, let’s dive into this month’s questions. Hi, I’m into electro estim …
Ass Me Anything Eight Issue with Alexander Cheves
Hi comrades. With the holidays over and COVID cases rising in the United States, many folks are likely retreating back to their bedrooms and returning to their old friends, butt plugs and P-spot massagers, dildos, and dongs. I recently separated from my partner of four years, and it was hard. …
Sex educator Alexander Cheves answers about lube, pegging, prostate orgasms, and plugs in the seventh edition of ASS Me Anything
Wondering if butt sex is gay sex? Need an anal-gasm explainer? Join Alexander Cheves on this edition of ASS Me Anything as we move up from the rear of the class.
Join Alexander Cheves on the sixth edition of Ass Me Anything as we discuss bottoming, manscaping, and post-play poop sessions
Welcome back to #AssMeAnything. I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer, butt demon, and author of the new book My Love Is a Beast: Confessions — a graphic sex memoir about my journey into happy sluthood. This is a safe space to ask questions on all things anal. Keep reading for …
Ass Me Anything Fifth Issue
Howdy and welcome back to #AssMeAnything! This is a place to send questions on all things anal. My name is Alexander Cheves. I’m a sex writer and educator. As I write, my butt is nicely sore from a really fun ass session two nights ago — the great feeling of …
Welcome back to #AMA! I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer who recently published a book! If you’re interested in all the gritty details of my sexual journey, look for My Love Is a Beast, Confessions, which will publish in bookstores nationwide on October 12th from Unbound Edition Press. I’m here …
Ass Me Anything Third Issue
We’re back with a new #AMA! I’m Alexander Cheves, author, sex educator, and butt slut, here to answer your questions on all things anal. We’ve gotten several questions about fisting, which is really fascinating to me. When I first got into fisting about eight years ago, it was a heavily …
Alexander Cheves answers your questions on fisting, over-douching, and how to safely use a dildo
Welcome back to Ass Me Anything. I’m Alexander Cheves, sex writer and noted butt pig, here to answer your ass questions. b-Vibe has collected more queries from customers and followers, and since these answers are a bit longer than our inaugural post, I won’t waste any time and get right to …
Sex writer Alexander Cheves answers all of your questions on anal sex
Looking for some anal answers? Our first edition of Ass Me Anything with Alexander Cheves is here to put your ass-umptions to rest!

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Coming in fresh for 2022, here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
Why do women enjoy anal sex? Our certified sex educators dispel the stigmas surrounding anal and why couples love butt play.
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …
5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s almost 2020 and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it out.
One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
Why does anal sex hurt? Can I use a numbing cream during anal play? We asked certified sex educators to answer all your questions on how to make anal sex less painful. While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend …
A guide on anal talk and how to prepare for first time anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, anal talk can work better with a little planning. 
Sex educators reveal how to choose the best anal lube
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for all types of anal play.
Vibrating anal plugs are becoming increasingly popular among all couples. Read our expert guide on how to use a butt plug for anal pleasure and stimulation.
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner to an anal massage with these 8 sensual moves.