If the thought of putting something up your butt scares you, anal beads are a great place to start. Read on to find out why anal beads are one of the most popular sex toys for anal play.
Anal beads are a type of sex toy consisting of multiple spheres (or beads). They are available in varying sizes and are linked together by either a nylon string, thin pieces of silicone, or silicone molded into a base.
At first glance, anal beads may even look a little funny or even be intimidating, but once you understand how to use them- and the many ways in which they can bring you pleasure- they will quickly become one of your favorite sex toys.
Pro tip: Anal beads get progressively larger which makes them a great option for anal sex training.
No. Whilst both toys are designed for anal pleasure, they each serve a unique purpose- butt plugs are meant to go in your anus and stay in, while anal beads provide stimulation by being moved in and out of your butt.
By inserting anal beads one at a time, you can create the same feeling of “fullness” that a butt plug provides. But half the fun is in the removal- you can pull the beads out and pop them back in again and again. The movement will stimulate the erotic nerve endings of your sphincter to feel like you’re massaging your b-hole.
Firstly, always use anal beads that come with a ring or handle attached to the end. This is designed for pulling and pushing the beads in and out, as well as keeping the toy from getting lost in the rectum (which is super important!). Now that you’re ready, follow these easy steps:
“How to use anal beads” is one of the most common questions that we receive. The answer is that it’s always a great idea to try them out by yourself first. There’s a lot less pressure when it’s just you. Plus, it will also help you know what you like and don’t like.
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When trying new toys, sometimes your eyes can be bigger than your anus. A set of anal beads will normally start small, with each bead getting larger and larger. We recommend to start off with three or four small to medium sized beads- you don’t want to make any promises that your anus can’t keep!
Start off by inserting the beads one at a time to create a sensual feeling of fullness.
When you’re ready, pull them out at varying speeds, depending on the desired effect. As the anal beads are removed, they arouse the sensitive nerve endings of the double-ringed sphincter muscle. This stimulation creates a series of pleasurable sensations, like having a muscle massaged.
Pro tip: Always use lubricant with anal beads or any anal sex toy, for that matter. Not sure what lube to use? Learn how to choose the best lube for anal play.
The wonderful thing about anal beads is that there are several ways to use them- you can try taking them out as you near climax for a whole new different take on orgasms, or use anal beads as a warm up before sex.
You can also leave your anal beads in safely for about 2-3 hours. But don’t go overboard, and like, fall asleep with them in.
If you’re sharing anal beads, we recommend to use a condom over the toy and replace it with a new one when you switch between partners. Besides safety, you’ll still be able to feel each bead with a condom and it will make cleanup a whole lot easier.
Before you begin, get hold of baby wipes- they’re going to be your new best friend. If you’re looking for a quick clean, you can simply use alcohol-free, unscented, hypoallergenic baby wipes.
If you have some time, you can try to have a bowel movement 30-60 minutes before anal play and then wash the area with soap and warm water. You can use those baby wipes again for good measure.
Once you’re done, thoroughly wash your toy with hot, soapy water.
Your anus contains specific bacteria that shouldn’t be shared, so wash any dirty towels or sheet, and dispose of any use latex barriers. Don’t forget to sanitize your lube container afterwards!
Whilst its completely subjective, we believe that silicone anal beads are the best material for beginners to start with. Silicone is body-safe, non-porous, and will be the easiest to clean.
Don’t go cheap with anal beads — you want something you’re going to feel safe tugging on to remove. And stay away from any cheap plastic with a thin, fabric string, as there’s no way to clean them and they harbor bacteria.
Allow us a little humblebrag and let us introduce to you to the best anal beads for beginners. Meet the b-Vibe Triplet!
The b-Vibe Triplet is made specifically for those who are new to anal play. The Triplet’s flexible silicone beads are molded into a semi-rigid shaft with an anchor at the end. This gives the user more control, making inserting and removing the beads a much easier task.
The anchored base also allows the Triplet to be worn as an anal plug, opening the door to further pleasure, such as double penetration play.
Vibration can help the sphincter muscles to relax, which is exactly what you want to be doing when you first insert them. Removing the vibrating beads near climax can lead to intense toe-curling orgasms.
Leaving the Triplet inserted and switching on its two rumbly motors using its handy remote control can kick that sensation into high gear and really ramping up the pleasure.
The best part is all this hands-free stimulation means that you can use your hands for other important erotic matters. The remote can also be used to spice up partner play.
If you have a penis, your prostate will respond extremely well to movement, pressure, and stimulation of the second bead. Flex and release your pelvic muscles.
Last, but surely not least, share the pleasure with your partner. When the b-Vibe Triplet Anal Beads are worn inside the bum during penetrative vaginal sex (meaning penis in vagina, beads in the butt), the vibration and the beads can easily be felt by the penis. This provides an extra pleasurable sensation and enjoyment for both partners.
Now that you’re armed with more knowledge, hopefully, anal beads don’t seem silly or scary as you may have once thought. All you need now to start your anal bead adventure is your favorite anal lube and a Triplet.
Happy adventuring and pleasure ahoy!
p.s. Here’s what Red Hot Suz, a sex blogger & sex toy reviewer, had to say about the Triplet Anal Beads.
p.p.s. If you still want to learn more about anal beads, check out Cosmopolitan’s article on the 14 Things You Didn’t Know About Using This Anal Toy.