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The mission of b-Vibe is to elevate the anal play experience by providing comprehensive, sex positive education.  Our team of certified experts have written and assembled an extensive collection of tips and advice to decrease negative stigmas and ensure that anal play is pleasurable.  Within the Expert Advice section, you’ll find a wide range of anal play advice, product knowledge and support for retailers. 

  • 5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
    Anal Play and Hygiene

    Hygiene and cleanliness are one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage.

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  • A beginners guide on rimming and how to safely perform analingus using various positions and techniques
    Rimming: A Guide to Positions, Safety and Techniques

    Rimming (also known as analingus, rim job, or tossing the salad) is the act of using your mouth or tongue to stimulate the outer rim of your partner’s anus. It can be an amazingly intimate and pleasurable way to play, for both the giver and the receiver. Here’s our complete guide …

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  • What is a butt plug? b-Vibe certified sex educators have created a guide on this commonly used sex toy and how to properly use them for anal play
    What is a Butt Plug?

    Butt plugs are one of the most popular sex toys for anal play. The simple, yet a rather genius, design of a butt plug helps people to enjoy hands-free anal stimulation for prolonged periods of time. Butt plugs accomplish a basic task very effectively – they stay in place. Find …

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  • A guide by certified sex educators on how to combine anal play with fantasy play
    Beginner’s Guide to Anal Play and Fantasy

    One of the most common reasons people enjoy anal play, besides the physical pleasure, is how well it combines with fantasy play. Some people love the feeling of surrender and trust that comes with exploring that incredibly intimate part of their bodies. The feeling of naughtiness that arises from doing …

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  • An easy-to-use guide on how to give a great prostate massage
    How to Give a Prostate Massage

    One of the ways to make anal play exciting includes giving a prostate massage. Before you get started, be sure to read about making anal penetration easy and fun. Get lots of lubricant, along with some gloves if you use them for anal fun. And get your partner turned on …

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  • Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
    Prostate Play 101: A Guide on How to Find Your P-Spot

    There are a lot of reasons people like anal play. It can feel amazing, it can create feelings of surrender and connection, and for some people, it can tap into the fun of playing with the taboo. And for men, there can be an additional way to make anal play …

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  • One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
    Anal Play for Men: Does This Make Me or My Boyfriend Gay?

    One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some amazing fun.

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  • Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
    Does Anal Sex Hurt?

    While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend that anal sex is supposed to hurt or that somehow, it magically shifts from ouch to awesome. But if it ever does feel uncomfortable, there are better ways to deal with that …

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  • A guide on anal talk and how to prepare for first time anal sex
    How to Talk about Anal

    Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, anal talk can work better with a little planning. 

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  • Select the best lubricant for anal with the help of our guide, written by certified sex expert Alicia Sinclair.
    Choosing the Right Lubricant for Anal Play

    The right lubricant can make anal play feel amazing. With so many different varieties of lube to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here are some tips by our certified sex experts to pick the lube that works for you.

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