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Ass Me Anything Fifth Issue
Howdy and welcome back to #AssMeAnything! This is a place to send questions on all things anal. My name is Alexander Cheves. I’m a sex writer and educator. As I write, my butt is nicely sore from a really fun ass session two nights ago — the great feeling of …
Welcome back to #AMA! I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer who recently published a book! If you’re interested in all the gritty details of my sexual journey, look for My Love Is a Beast, Confessions, which will publish in bookstores nationwide on October 12th from Unbound Edition Press. I’m here …
Follow sex educator Dirty Lola on a journey of everything you need to know bout massaging the booty hole!
Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
A complete 101 guide on pegging and how to get started
What is pegging? What does it feel like? How do I get started? Sex educator Gigi Engle reveals the best pegging positions and answers everything there is to know about using a strap-on for anal penetration.
Sex educator Zachary Zane asked folks why they love vibrating butt plugs
Plugging has always been a favorite pastime of ours, but your patootie plunger can be taken to the next level when you add a little shake! I remember the first time my girlfriend put her index finger up my rear end; I orgasmed almost immediately. I didn’t expect the pleasure …
Sex educator Dirty Lola shares her best tips on how to use a penis ring during partnered play
One of the easier ways to amp up your partnered anal play is by adding a penis ring into the mix. What are the benefits of using a penis ring? Penis rings, AKA cock rings AKA p-rings, are worn around the base of the penis or the base and testicles …
Ass Me Anything Third Issue
We’re back with a new #AMA! I’m Alexander Cheves, author, sex educator, and butt slut, here to answer your questions on all things anal. We’ve gotten several questions about fisting, which is really fascinating to me. When I first got into fisting about eight years ago, it was a heavily …
Sex educator Zachary Zane explains how to use a butt plug and cock ring combo toy
In my humble opinion, cock rings are one of the most underutilized sex toys for penis owners, which is ridiculous, given how simple they are to use. You just slide one over the base of your penis (and, depending on the ring, around your testicles too). That’s it—you’re in business!  …
You may be wondering, can a butt plug really be a couple’s toy and the answer is YES! Besides being a great way to experiment with double penetration during penetrative sex, butt plugs can be utilized in all kinds of play scenarios. They’re great for first time anal masturbation, but …
Alexander Cheves answers your questions on fisting, over-douching, and how to safely use a dildo
Welcome back to Ass Me Anything. I’m Alexander Cheves, sex writer and noted butt pig, here to answer your ass questions. b-Vibe has collected more queries from customers and followers, and since these answers are a bit longer than our inaugural post, I won’t waste any time and get right to …
Sex educator Zachary Zane shares his best anal tips for experienced bottoms
There are a growing number of articles out there for folks new to anal play. These pieces provide necessary introductory information like communicating with your partner, don’t clench, and stop if anything feels painful.

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
Why do women enjoy anal sex? Our certified sex educators dispel the stigmas surrounding anal and why couples love butt play.
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …
5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s almost 2020 and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it out.
One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
Why does anal sex hurt? Can I use a numbing cream during anal play? We asked certified sex educators to answer all your questions on how to make anal sex less painful. While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend …
A guide on anal talk and how to prepare for first time anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, anal talk can work better with a little planning. 
Sex educators reveal how to choose the best anal lube
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for all types of anal play.
Vibrating anal plugs are becoming increasingly popular among all couples. Read our expert guide on how to use a butt plug for anal pleasure and stimulation.
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner to an anal massage with these 8 sensual moves.