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b-Vibe speaks with Todd Masterson aka GayFatFriend about Body Positivity
The Body Positivity movement was started as a way to show people that all bodies are acceptable, desirable, and valid. But as Pride comes into full swing, what should we do when a lack of understanding turns “positivity” into an insult? Todd Masterson aka @GayFatFriend talks us through the misunderstandings …
Learn everything about golden showers and how to get started with pee play
How did they gain popularity? Are they safe? In our latest Queeries, Bobby Box dips into this undulating BDSM kink on golden showers to help you explore and get started with pee play.
Learn how to safely double anal penetration the butt with these tips from DP expert Alex Cheves
Double-stuffin’ the butt is a hot and full-filling fantasy for many, but without the right precautions, it can hurt or even cause injury. Seasoned DP expert Alex Cheves shares his tried & tested double anal penetration tips!
Dermatologist Dr. Karan Lal examines the causes of butt acne and shares tips on treatment and pimple prevention
To pop or not to pop the zit… that is the question! Bobby Box spoke with Dr. Karan Lal to examine the causes of butt zits, treating them, and how to prevent butt acne from appearing on your patootie.
Learn how to douche properly with a shower shot
Shower douches can be incredibly convenient but riskier than other cleansing methods. In this edition of Queeries, Bobby Box sprays his knowledge on how to douche with a shower shot safely.
Prostate Cancer Awareness
When it comes to the prostate, people often think of two things: procreation and pleasure. Other than that, though, there isn’t much health-related knowledge available regarding this sexually significant part of the body.
Is there a shortage of tops in the gay community
Reporting from what many on Grindr call “Bottom City,” Bobby Box is on the case of the missing tops. Where did they all go and why might it seem like your area is a bit bottom heavy? Our latest Queeries column fills you in on the “Top Paradox.”
Find out what causes anal scarring and how to manage pain if you plan on having anal sex after surgery
What causes anal scarring? Bobby Box reveals his painful experience and spoke with renowned anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein on managing pain from old anal scars and fissures.
Bobby Box and Dr. Evan Goldstein answer all frequently asked questions about having an anal botox
What is anal botox? Should you inject your butthole for better anal sex? In this edition of the Queeries, Bobby Box spoke to anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein about botoxing for pain and pleasure.
Sex writer Alexander Cheves reveals everything there is to know about enema play and BDSM
If you Google “enema play,” you will form — along with a handful of articles that treat enema fetishes (the scientific name is klismaphilia) as a mental illness or “condition.” This is not one of those articles.
A comprehensive guide on what to eat before anal sex for bottoms
What should you eat before anal sex? What are the foods to avoid? Here’s your comprehensive guide to a bottom-friendly diet, from mouth to hole.
Sex educator Bobby Box teaches how to have safer bareback sex
From a sensational perspective, people tend to prefer bareback sex. The primary reason being that barrier methods, like condoms, can lessen the deeply carnal and coveted sensation of sex.

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
Why do women enjoy anal sex? Our certified sex educators dispel the stigmas surrounding anal and why couples love butt play.
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …
5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first-ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s been almost a decade since we first launched and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it …
One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
Why does anal sex hurt? Can I use a numbing cream during anal play? We asked certified sex educators to answer all your questions on how to make anal sex less painful. While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend …
Learn how to talk to your partner or wife about having anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your wife, husband, or partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, having the anal talk can work better with a little …
Sex educators reveal how to choose the best anal lube
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for all types of anal play.
Vibrating anal plugs are becoming increasingly popular among all couples. Read our expert guide on how to use a butt plug for anal pleasure and stimulation.
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner with these 8 sensual anal massaging techniques.
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