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How Photos of Fisting Penetrated Capitol Hill
When you hear the words “erotic art” the first thing that might come to mind are explicit depictions of naked bodies entwined, phallic and/or labial organs thrusting, prodding, and fisting in various degrees of extremity, with bodily fluids strewn about the depicted scene in showings of conquered ecstasy… … and …
With the streets transformed so that all of Dorothy’s friends can follow the rainbow brick road to the land of snogs, it could come as a shock to those less invested that Pride started as a protest and that the parade is actually a march. Even community members get swept …
Sex educator Zachary Zane asked medical experts to answer everything about penis pumps
When you think of penis pumps, you likely think of Austin Powers, who famously brought them to mainstream culture. However, they are a real thing that people can, and in many circumstances, should use. It all depends on what you’re hoping to achieve from the penis pump. (I’m letting you know now, it’s not …
Ass Me Anything Ninth Issue with Alexander Cheves
Welcome back to #AssMeAnything, the place where all butt-related questions and queries are tackled with sex-positivity and shame-free advice. My name is Alexander Cheves — I write about sex, kink, porn, and all sorts of delightful things. Without further ado, let’s dive into this month’s questions. Hi, I’m into electro estim …
Sex educator Amanda Chatel reveals everything you need to know about spanking during sex
Ah, erotic spanking – the wonderful sensation of combining pleasure and just the right amount of pain. Ready to master the art of spanking during sex? Come right this way!
Ass Me Anything Eight Issue with Alexander Cheves
I recently separated from my partner of four years, and it was hard. We had a loving and amicable breakup — a mutual decoupling, an agreement to remain friends — but I still got sad and took a few weeks off from butt play. Now I’m getting back into my toys …
Sex educator Alexander Cheves answers about lube, pegging, prostate orgasms, and plugs in the seventh edition of ASS Me Anything
Wondering if butt sex is gay sex? Need an anal-gasm explainer? Join Alexander Cheves on this edition of ASS Me Anything as we move up from the rear of the class.
Sex educator Dirty Lola shares everything you need to know about comfort sex and how to have it
What is comfort sex? How do I have it? Sex educator Dirty Lola gives you a complete 101 on sex that will leave you feeling happy and satisfied!
Join Alexander Cheves on the sixth edition of Ass Me Anything as we discuss bottoming, manscaping, and post-play poop sessions
Welcome back to #AssMeAnything. I am Alexander Cheves, a sex writer, butt demon, and author of the new book My Love Is a Beast: Confessions — a graphic sex memoir about my journey into happy sluthood. This is a safe space to ask questions on all things anal. Keep reading for …
Sex educator Zachary Zane shares his 5 best butt toy picks to gift this Christmas
The holidays are here, and what better present is there than the gift of unadulterated pleasure? That’s why you absolutely should give everyone you know a sex toy. Your partner? Obviously. Yourself? Duh. Your parents? Yes, even them! Whether we like to admit it or not, our parents (likely) do …
How to incorporate food into sex
There are two great physical pleasures in the world: food and sex. So, naturally, people want to combine them. Whipped cream, blueberries, chocolate, milk, even pasta sauce—you can add any food or drink into your sex life.
Ass Me Anything Fifth Issue
Howdy and welcome back to #AssMeAnything! This is a place to send questions on all things anal. My name is Alexander Cheves. I’m a sex writer and educator. As I write, my butt is nicely sore from a really fun ass session two nights ago — the great feeling of …

A Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex

Looking to spice up your anal sex positions, or perhaps you’re curious to find out the best position for first time anal? We’ve got your back! Here’s our most updated guide on the best anal sex positions.
Why do women enjoy anal sex? Our certified sex educators dispel the stigmas surrounding anal and why couples love butt play.
Social norms and expectations are a constant subject of change and evolution. Sexual stigma and what we find to be an acceptable and healthy part of our “intimate diet” are things that, luckily, get re-written. This brings us to anal play and the notion that enjoying it makes someone a …
5 easy-to-remember tips on anal hygiene and how to prep for anal sex
Anal hygiene is one of the most common concerns that people have about anal play. Fortunately, it isn’t difficult to manage. In fact, these 5 simple steps are all you need to know on how to prep for anal.
Prostate play 101: A beginners guide to prostate pleasure
Hold up! It looks like you’ve come across our first-ever article on P-spot stimulation. It’s been almost a decade since we first launched and we’ve just created the best possible guide on prostate play — click on the link or head over to our Anal Play Advice to check it …
One of the most frequently asked questions is that whether having or wanting anal sex makes a person gay; b-Vibe debunks the myth
One of the great things about anal play is that folks of any gender and orientation can enjoy it, not just gay men. The techniques are the same, but a lot of guys express fear about receiving anal pleasure. That’s unfortunate because it means that they’re missing out on some …
Anal sex should never hurt, providing that you follow these simple tips on pleasurable anal play.
Why does anal sex hurt? Can I use a numbing cream during anal play? We asked certified sex educators to answer all your questions on how to make anal sex less painful. While anal play can be a lot of fun, it’s not always comfortable. Unfortunately, there’s an urban legend …
Learn how to talk to your partner or wife about having anal sex
Once you’ve decided that you want to try anal play, you need to figure out how to tell your wife, husband, or partner. If they’ve already said that they’re into it, that conversation will probably be pretty easy. But sometimes, having the anal talk can work better with a little …
Sex educators reveal how to choose the best anal lube
The right anal lube can make booty play feel amazing. But with so many lubes to choose from, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here’s our complete guide on how to choose the best lube for all types of anal play.
Vibrating anal plugs are becoming increasingly popular among all couples. Read our expert guide on how to use a butt plug for anal pleasure and stimulation.
A butt plug (also known as an anal plug) is a great way to add some backdoor pleasure to your bedroom fun. Learn why this anal play product is becoming everyone’s favorite sex toy. What is a butt plug? Unlike dildos, which are designed to slide in and out, butt …
Master 8 anal foreplay techniques on how to give an anal massge
Anal massage – an essential form of anal foreplay – can be a great way to arouse your partner and get them in the mood for anal intercourse. Follow our soft-core illustrations and treat your partner with these 8 sensual anal massaging techniques.
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